It allows the speaker to express control and ownership of their emotions without directly accusing the other person of being at fault. Synonyms for I Feel (other words and phrases for I Feel). Have you ever gotten this? If you ever need to talk, I am here. Hargie O. no e nergy and sickly feeling all over, i suffer with the panic attacks that wake me also. My kids are attending school away and hubby also works abroad. Sherri, as I was reading your post, I had to stop and look up it was not one I wrote. i have horrible muscle aches as well at times. Hi Sherriel - I had the same bladder pressure issue. In case something happens so I'm near the hospital. How are you honey! x, Hi, my periods are very irregular, I won't have a period for 3-4 months, then I'll have one every 18 days a few times, the 5 months withoutI've had quite a lot of tests, bloods, been to 2 neurologists, gynae, gastro docs, all okish, except for Sibo and low in vit d and iron. Hi again Leisa, just wanted to add yes,i do get the nausea. i have been turning to God also. I hope this passes because it does totally drain the life out of you. i also get alot of left rib pain - and over the last couple of years it's radiated to my back as well. Because of terrible hot flashes I went on HRT about six years after menopause and after a bit the urinary problems returned. this seriously needs to stop. Its not easy, I hope you have support around you. I tell my doctors I think the anxiety and digestive issues are hormone related but they look at me like I'm crazy.I'm looking for a new doctor who is female and post menopausal that has a clue what this stage is all about. I saw the most horrific things. I don't understand how hormones can do this to a person. Ill be around the boards. As much as i hate doing this because i don't want to go down the hormone path, i started using vaginal estrogen. It happened twice. I have that same weird head pressure. I have always been bubbly and positive. please ease my mind and tell me im not alone. Patient does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Hello, please can someone help to ease the absolute terror I have that I've got some terrible neurological disease? Corganics Clinical CBD Softgels provide patients with a precise serving of THC-free CBD in a convenient form. You really will be ok. Mine is like you said with the upper stomach. Peri and meno didn't get me, postmeno is what's killing me. By placing the attention primarily on the feelings and needs of the speaker, it focuses the conversation on solving a problem rather than assigning blame. I have this weird bladder pressure but i dont think its Interstatial Cystitis because i dont have any pain, thank God! I live in Spain where we have free medical for everyone, but if you go holistic you do pay out of pocket. I have always had them but with menopause and everything drying out, they are more common! Thank you for reading my frustrations . As you look at the example, remember that feeling statements are often called "I statements" as the first word is "I" not "you.". Tired from insomnia, horrible gas, racing heart, anxiety, one minute I'm freezing with chills and the next I'm hot, dry itchy skin, you name it, I've felt it, weird head pressure, horrible dreams and feelings of dread, just all kinds of stuff. God be with us all. Another way to say I Feel? I have had every test you can think of as well and feel the same as you. It is likely that Susan only got a defensive response. It can be brought on by stress..do anyone in your family have diverticulitis or IBS? appropriate medical assistance immediately. Afraid that my insurance would deny the payment of the colonoscopy after I had it done (no prior authorization needed and I am not 50 or older), I decided to wait my symptoms out and sure enough, they have improved. Just know you are not alone, people will think we are losing it. While these messages can vary, there are three essential components of afeeling statement: This refers to stating the speaker's real feelings only, and it starts with the word "I." Thank you, {{form.email}}, for signing up. when i do deep breathing to try and relieve the anxiety it causes I feel a heaviness in my chest. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified Families are also prone to communication problems that can interfere with the family dynamic and lead to conflict within the family unit. One thing i notice, is that dehydration can cause me to feel rather unwell. I saw your post about rib and left side pain. Im not happy for anyones suffering but happy to have met you awesome ladies who have validated exactly what I experience. Uggh.. it is really getting to me. Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you. Sadness is a bit foreign to me, usually I'm happy go lucky. I have been like this for 3 years and I'm finding it harder and harder to cope. I so hate that this happening!!! What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. I found that what helped was Probiotic Pearls for women's vaginal and digestive health. It would really make me feel better if you could help me with this.". I think together and reading each other's posts, it makes us hopeful and not so alone! Maybe because of declining estrogen. Sleep is a new concern, when my meds always handled that before (mostly why I'm on them in the first place) and I feel all alone. its putting me into depression, Hi Becky, I'm exactly the same don't feel right and when I wake up you don't feel you either people say it will get better and that's my only hope..I'm glad you are feeling better it's so hard. i also take a variety of supplements- calcium, b, d, probiotic, etc and my husband is thinking i'm a hypochondriac! Is this a normal thing with this (post-menopause)? I'm always making a drs appointment about something! my constant upset stomach/trapped air burping/ feeling unsteady when i walk is the worst one, amxiety, feel like i have ongoing flu. For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care." While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. And here's the worst part. Just a suggestion. Also forcing beverages down to keep from getting dehydrated. 2016;35(2):180-205. doi:10.1177/0261927X15583114. Patient aims to help the world proactively manage its healthcare, supplying evidence-based information on a wide range of medical and health topics to patients and health professionals. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . Now awful riots and my niece is a police officer in Milwaukee and the things she tells and sends me are down right frightening so I think with all I am sure the stress is not helping. It seems to hit like every 3 months and last for about a week (which seems like a year)! I dont want to use anti depressants either. Praying like you that this is just another "symptom" and not cancer. Does propranolol help you? Nat Commun. I feel your pain, you have my sympathy and hope that by telling my tale, you know that there are other women out there going through the same thing. I've had the same pelvic pain and my going to the Dr. this week. Rather than leading with criticism, it focuses the conversation on how the speaker feels about it. I also have my digestive woes like you so you are definitely not alone. just awaiting on results from a biopsys that was took from left breast yesterday , get results next tuesday , but praying and asking God for good result , thanx for reply , nobody quite understands as the out of things that can come from menapause. i've had numerous tests done as well, but I still get all these aches and pains, which lead me to think the worse. Ill be 56 in August.April 15 2019 was my last period. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. I was also of the opinion that I will die home alone and no one will find me! I cant quite put my finger on all the unwellness i feel, but have a doctor cousin who assures me that what i feel is valid even if doctors dont quite understand it. Yes id love to talk to anyone about this. It is so obviously hormone related since it's worse in the morning and best in the evening. im desperately searching for a good dr that specializes in perimenopause - menopause. Strangely sad, too. Me too , i took propranolol for palpitaions and felt that im about to passout . i have been post menopause since 2015. im with you getting down and seeking God is the only thing i need too God is in control of our health . The best news us it came back benign. I had this done back in November. I did many tests what i know is i have Gerd . No children, wondering if this transition is harder on women who haven't had kids (?) I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. hello, wow you seem to have a lot of the same problems I have I think theyre digestive anyway theyre in my stomach and in my back and on my sides and they move around a lot but it really hurts mainly on my right side the most and Im really scared theres something wrong!!! I've been in perimenopause for five years now, but this fear and anxiety started this year, now with the lockdown and Covid19 it's even harder for me. I had an ice-cream bar the other night right before I went to bed and HOLY HELL! I'm having the same problems with my liver.My Alp is 150 and I'm getting test done next week and google has scared the crap out of me. These Drs truly dont listen heck the emts mentioned menopause. Have your symptoms gotten any better? Mahmoodi A, Bahrami B, Mehring C. Reciprocity of social influence. I hope you are all save out there. I honestly didn't see it coming. You mentioned you had pressure. 5 Signs of an Energy Vampire and How to Cope, Effects of Conflict and Stress on Relationships, Relationship Emotions: How to Express Feelings in a Relationship, How Nitpicking Can Damage Your Relationship, How to Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills, Newlywed Advice: Tips for New Married Couples, Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict, What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality, Journal of Language and Social Psychology. You definitely are not alone. Hi Vicky. I am so thankful to know i am not alone. i just got home from the er where all my tests were normal. yes I'm the same. I think the polyp made my lining look thicker than it was. Hi I know this post was some time ago. Hopefully it's the end of my period as I'm 53. For me, faith too is cornerstone in this struggle. Meticulously curated television underscore. this sounds just like me. Take Care. I hope this works, too soon to tell right now. My Alp levels came back elevated for the first time ever at 128. I would like to be invited to be with you, even if you are with your friends.". I am mentally, physically and emotionally drained to say the least. . at times i will feel the ache in my left side. Sorry for the rant , hi, are your periods still regular? You are absolutely right about googling. I feel terrible live a very healthy lifestyle and have been completely taken back by this every single day for three months. Your self worth, self esteem, self confidence and all that other good 'self' stuff is gone right out the window. if so thats a big hope for me . Thank goodness for your reply. Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. How are you doing darlin. the constant worry of something horrible is going to happen!!! then it moves to the front and i feel pressure and aching. I didn't want to take antibiotic (because I have severe allergy to some) so I started with the natural route. I also have been fighting migraines, so painful they cause vomiting. It's strange, I got thru peri and meno without too much trouble except for maybe some sudden outbursts of anger (and I'm not an angry gal!) This might involve a person saying something like, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends. I have had the same thing for 2 months now plus digestive issues and no explanation from the GP. We are in this together ladies! Is this normal or am I just losing my mind cuz it sure feels like it! this sounds like me also, and gotten even worst with this scary virus!! What next! I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. Then once I've calm down I drive myself back home. Our clinical information meets the standards set by the NHS in their Standard for Creating Health Content guidance. I am post menopause. It's hard to think positive, I mean really hard, and we end up wallowing in self pity and just feeling sorry for ourselves. You know they are bad when you are asking for the alternating constipation/diarrhea to come back so you can be over the urinary symptoms! I have a lot of anxiety over it! Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? I have aches and pains all over my body hot and cold all night I cant sleep headaches all the time dizzy tired pain in my left side it feels and sounds like the rib pain you ladies were speaking of but just sore every morning waking up feeling like doom its driving me crazy and its hard to talk to anyone about it thats not going through it because they just think that theres something wrong with you or youre having anxiety but its way much much deeper than that, but the dry mouth and the dry eyes and pain in the body is what is bothering me the most besides everything else I dont even look the same when I look in the mirror I feel like Im somebody else like everything is changed and Im not the same person I was just a year ago I have to fix this I pray on it I buy things to make me feel better and they dont but Im going to find a way to fix this I have to oh and I cant forget the buzzing in my ears Ive never experienced anything so horrible in my life all of this is just horrific but Im going to pray about it and Im definitely going to get better I have to. xx. I've been to the ER due to this issue thinking I had bladder cancer, nope all tests come back normal. Now getting night sweats which are nothing compared to nausea. All the above symptoms I can relate to. Then COVID. It will be 3 years in December since my last period. Feeling statements are often used in therapy and many mental health professionals encourage their use in everyday communication. I don't have headaches, a little congested but I don't think it's allergies. How is taking proprabolol ? Is it possible to feel like crap 80% of the month? But be reassured you really are ok. Hormones effect every part of our body and it's normal. I know what it's like when you are just wanting someone to talk to and seems like you are going through this alone. it started jan 2016 but past 3 months have beem horrible. I had lots of tests all came back negative. shari. I think in part He is what led me to the menopause boards!. I can hardly get through my day. The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes. It was only a few times. She practices in Washington state and im in Virginia so i have to watch her on YouTube. im new here and cant figure out how to use this forum properly but i have the shoulder blade pain which caused me to have neck surgery to get rid of it. I suffer terrible medical anxiety so understand what you are going through. I'd also love to hear from anybody else going through the same. I took a 5mg valium and jumped in my car and drove to the vicinity of the hospital thinking I'm going to get a heart attack and die making several rounds on the block without going in! These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. Thank you for your testimony! Im 55; will be 56 in August. 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