To the guy who thinks pain will last forever, shake the heaviness from your shoulders and be willing to start again. Has this helped your ego? She is a free. That someone isn't my someone, but he held the same power over you. When you need advice, or when you just need someone to listen. I decided that love stays, and that meant, in that time of wanting, I instead chose to stay with myself. A long, long moment spent looking into each others eyes and smiling. The past, the wonderful moments together, the entire days spent making love, the mojitos at three in the morning, the dancing until we were out of breath, the reenactments of Titanic on my teeny tiny balcony, the hard times, the health issues and the obstacles too, but always, always, Love. We complete each other. All Rights Reserved. To the guy who keeps his heart hidden, I see you. Sharon DeNofa is an award-winning author of Happily Ever NOT receiving the Gold for the. Example letters to you mean everything to me. Congratulations to all the writers! I decided I would take all that courage and strength it took to love you and love myself better. We're dedicated to sharing "the mindful life" beyond the core or choir, to all those who don't yet know they give a care. When I say that you've left me alone, I mean that you have left me completely and utterly alone . But what I want you to know most is that I still love myself, and I still know what love really is. So I have forgiven every trespass and pardon all the pains I went through because it is a challenge and I have accepted it already. You said to keep me on surprising you because you believe in me and that I have talents and potentials or maybe more. I am your Natasha. 7"I murdered a man in Laos on 6/19/2002 and have . And I hate myself for loving a man like you. Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. They give up on them for different reasons like they can't get through to them, they can't get the person to open up. Im worried you wont want to hear any of it, but I really do need you to. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. I hope this letter helps you to understand that you are not alone in this beautiful land of heartbreaks that we tip toe through with the complete notion that it feels like an intriguing game and a horrifying war zone all wrapped in one. I decided that I would be one hundred percent responsible for my choices in this instead of handing over my power to you as I had done time and time again. I get that women seem irrational and slightly off-kilter and you are probably watching me somewhat closely at first to make sure I am not a fruitcake. I am sorry for every pain I caused you. Founded in 2010, Thought Catalog is owned and operated by The Thought & Expression Company, Inc. For over a decade, we've been at the bleeding edge of media, pioneering an infrastructure for creatives to flourish both artistically and financially. You and I are also different, but we are the same. Because I'm not the type to give up on people. I cherish you beyond your imagination and will love to hug and kiss you where you are right now. I hope that I can handle it a lot more gracefully than you did. Im afraid of losing you. When I met you, you drove me crazy. . You made a girl, who was told she could never dance again, dance. Please learn about it. At some point or another, everybody goes through it. I love you when you grab my butt and when you put your hand on my head. When a friend, a best friend, dumps you, the space they leave in their wake is almost impossible to fill. So, thank you. It is being able to see our own beauty and potential, even when others make those things feel non-existent. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. What could I say? An Open Letter To The Man I Fell In Love With, 10 Things You Need To Add To Your Summer Bucklist ASAP by Emily Templeton, 9 Things I Have On My Summer Bucket List That You Don't Want To Miss, How To Stay Happy In A Negative Atmosphere, How Your Music Taste Reflects Your Personality by Carlos Gonzalez. There is only one simple concept, and that is that love is the most powerful entity in the world. I'll love becoming your wife and the mother of your children. I hope you realize that I miss you every day, and that I would do anything in the world to undo the mistakes I made. It was no different with my. Im afraid. Roopa Swaminathan. Love is a perpetual joy that saves us when all hope feels lost. //